Mistakes, I’ve made a few, too many to
list.
Popular culture says that if you
learned from a mistake it’s never a failure.
If it’s true I am encouraged because I
have certainly been trained by mistakes.
Taking a moment to consider why
mistakes arise, it seems that bad judgement, distractions or lack of thought
will play a part in tripping us up.
For some it may be because of a period
of Illness, depression and lack of self worth.
The simple truth is that we will all make mistakes.
I have found I am resilient and
mentally strong when facing the need to make corrections in my life.
The tragedy of mistakes is that,
depending on their seriousness, they can have a disappointing downside which
makes them hard to forget.
They affect the lives of others and
Impact on relationships.
One lesson that is often challenging
is the reaction of others.
Loyal ones rally, hesitant ones stand
still and those who rush to judgement become unavailable.
Some relevant lessons are these;
·
Discourage
anyone from putting you on a Pedestal as they will surely end up disappointed.
·
Don’t
delay in recognising a mistake and look to correct it early.
·
Consider
the Impact on others and offer them reassurances.
·
Show
your appreciation for those who support you.
·
Say
Sorry to those affected most.
·
Never
expect Perfection in all you do. It does not exist.
·
Be
Humble in accepting your Error.
·
Look
forwards – Not Backwards when you have done all you can to limit the Impact.
·
Don’t
be surprised by those who turn out to be Judgemental. Use the time spent on
them with those who are more Impartial and Sincere.
All any of us can do
is look to Improve Every Day
